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All the time I’m running into guys who tell me things like “I’m 36, but I look 30, so I tell women I’m 29.” Less often, though still regularly, I see guys in their 30s and even 40s who try to dress, act, and talk like men in their 20s.
In extreme cases these guys invade the clubs or college campuses to hit on younger women where they often look woefully out of place.
While there are always unusual exceptions to every rule, this approach does not work.
It fails for a very simple reason: The VYW most likely to have sex with you are the Type 2s, which are women who younger men their own age.
Being fat, or having hair grow out of the side of your neck, or dressing in styles that were outdated 20 years ago might be perfectly okay for provider-hunting women your age, but it won’t be okay for the younger ones.
(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.Mistake Number 2: Acting Like A Creepy Older Man, i.e.Being Horny Or Sexual Too Fast One of the greatest pieces of seduction advice I’ve ever heard was to “risk creepy”.So I dress a little classier, talk a little slower, drop the energy level down just a little, talk more about the wisdom I’ve learned over the years, and exhibit other older-guy behaviors.
In other words, all the things you would never do if you were on a date with an over-33 woman (because then she’ll shove you in Make Him Wait zone).Instead of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something I’ve talked about before, today I’ll discuss what to do.