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Someone who is fun tends to be more confident in themselves – after all, it’s hard to be fun when you’re too worried about looking silly or acting childish.
Fun people are also positive; excessively negative people suck the energy out of the room and kill the mood while positive people help energy.
It’s known as the Reward Theory of Attraction – we are attracted to people whose presence or behavior makes us feel appreciated and liked.
When the feeling of pleasure at a person’s involvement in our lives outweighs the costs (someone who’s fun to hang around with but who causes problems through his behavior, for example) then we tend to be drawn towards that relationship over others.
I get a charge from sharp women who enjoy that sort of witty duel-by-wordplay.
When done properly, it’s a game of verbal sparring back and forth, matching wits and humor with gentle ribbing and sexually charged teasing…
However, as much as making people feel good makes them like us, there’s more to it.Take bantering and antagonistic flirting, for example.